Jungian psychologist, master Cantadora, Clarissa Pinkola Estes, Ph.D. describes home this way, "When we are young and our soul-lives collide with the desires and requirements of culture and the world, indeed we feel stranded and far from home. If we were never taught return to the soul-home in childhood, we repeat the 'theft and wandering around lost' pattern...But, we can all find our way back."
Dr. Estes describes home as, "where a thought or feeling can be sustained instead of being interrupted or torn away from us because something else is demanding our time and attention... a sustained mood or sense that allows us to experience feelings not necessarily sustained in the mundane world: wonder, vision, peace, freedom from worry, freedom from demands."
Although I rarely do yoga, about 18 months ago I attended an Anusara class led by my good friend, Bernadette Birney, and heard in the opening three chants of om – home.
Om is the center of home. There is room inside om. Many rooms–to wander, explore, be. For both Hindus and Buddhists this syllable is sacred. Roughly translated it represents pure spirit. That sounds like a good place to call home.
Amit Ray in Om Chanting and Meditation says, "Om is not just a sound or vibration...It is the entire cosmos, whatever we can see, touch, hear and feel. Moreover, it is all that is within our perception and all that is beyond our perception. It is the core of our very existence." That feels like home.
Swami Maheshwarananda gives a rather all-encompassing view of it in Ibera Verlag, "Sanskrit, sometimes regarded it as three sounds, a-u-m, symbolic of the three major Hindu deities: Bhrahma Shakti (creation), Vishnu Shakti (preservation) and Shiva Shakti (liberation, and/or destruction).
The definition itself offers unexpected insights as well:
home/hōm/
It is the place where you live.
What kind of place? A house with hard-wood floors or a field of Gerbera daisies? A virtual one under a digital roof? Or an inner space of calm curiosity?
Is the question even where? Why can't it be a series of what's? Submersion in a warm bath... the smell of wood burning? The sound of geese migrating? Or is it a time. Dusk, pregnancy, summer. Or who?
As a child and young adult, I thought it must be a type of Secret Garden, real or imagined, that I couldn't find–a feeling of belonging–connectedness. Of something I could not find. Something bigger, I could not explain.
Still, when I have unintentionally abandoned myself and it grows dark and bleak, I find myself pleading, desperately mumbling, "I want to go home, I want to go home, I want to go home..."
So, where is home? Humankind spends billions of dollars on wildlife refuges to protect the homes of the egrit, ibis, crane and wolf yet we give little thought to a refuge, a home, of our own.
Dr. Clarissa Estes describes home as, "a sustained mood or sense that allows us to experience feelings not necessarily sustained in the mundane world: wonder, vision, peace, freedom from worry, freedom from demands."
I see home in the spiritual center of the word itself–the space between the exhaled "h" and the silent "e". The chant inside.
Swami Maheshwarananda says in Ibera Verlag, "Sanskrit, sometimes regarded it as three sounds, a-u-m, symbolic of the three major Hindu deities: Bhrahma Shakti (creation), Vishnu Shakti (preservation) and Shiva Shakti (liberation, and/or destruction). It is said to be "Adi Anadi" without beginning or end and embracing all that exists."
There are no expectations inside om. No rooms to tidy. No beds to make, breakfast to clean, leaky faucets to repair. It expands into a personal universe and contracts back into a blink.
Dr. Estes says, "In truth home is holographic, existing at full power in a single tree... a pool of still water... When you focus with soul-eyes, you will see home in many, many places."
Perhaps home is closer than we think.
home/hōm/
noun
1. the place where one lives permanently, especially as a member of a family or household: the floods forced many people to flee their homes; I was nineteen when I left home and went to college
the family or social unit occupying a permanent residence: he came from a good home
a house or flat considered as a commercial property: low-cost homes for first-time buyers [as modifier]: the growth in home ownership
the district or country where one was born or has settled on a long-term basis: they have made Provence their home
a place where something flourishes, is most typically found, or from which it originates: Montana is home to a surprising number of rare mammals
2. an institution for people needing professional care or supervision: an old people's home
3. the finishing point in a race: he was four fences from home
adjective
[attributive]
1. relating to the place where one lives: I don't have your home address
made, done, or intended for use in the home: traditional home cooking a home computer
relating to one's own country: we need to stimulate demand within the UK home market
2. (of a sports team or player) belonging to the country or locality in which a sporting event takes place: the home side
3. North American denoting the administrative centre of an organization: the company has moved its home office
verb
[no object]
1(of an animal) return by instinct to its territory after leaving it: a dozen geese homing to their summer nesting grounds
• (of a pigeon bred for long-distance racing) fly back to or arrive at its loft after being released at a distant point: pigeons who do not home will win no prizes
2 (home in on) move or be aimed towards (a target or destination) with great accuracy: more than 100 missiles were launched, homing in on radar emissions
focus attention on: a teaching style which homes in on what is of central importance for each pupil
3 [with object] provide (an animal) with a home as a pet: each year thousands of cats which could have been homed are being needlessly put down
Phrases
at home
in one's own house:
I told him I'd be at home most of the day
ready to receive and welcome visitors:
she took to her room and was not at home to friends
in one's own neighbourhood, town, or country:
he has been consistently successful both at home and abroad
comfortable and at ease in a place or situation:
sit down and make yourself at home
confident or relaxed about doing or using something:
he was quite at home talking about Eisenstein or Brecht
bring something home to
make (someone) realize the full significance of something:
her first-hand account brought home to me the pain of the experience
close (or near) to home
(of a remark or topic of discussion) relevant or accurate to the point that one feels uncomfortable or embarrassed.
come home to someone
(of the significance of something) become fully realized by someone:
the full enormity of what was happening came home to Sara
drive (or hammer or press or ram) something home
make something clearly understood by the use of repeated or forcefully direct arguments:
we must drive home the message that crime doesn't pay
hit (or strike) home
(of a blow or a missile) reach an intended target.
(of words) have the intended, especially unsettling or painful, effect on their audience:
she could see that her remark had hit home
(of the significance or true nature of a situation) become fully realized by someone:
the full impact of life as a celebrity began to hit home
home from (North American away from) home
British a place where one is as happy, relaxed, or comfortable as in one's own home.
home is where the heart is
proverb your home will always be the place for which you feel the deepest affection, no matter where you are.
home, James (and don't spare the horses)!
dated used as a humorous way of exhorting the driver of a vehicle to drive home quickly.
home sweet home
used as an expression of one's pleasure or relief at being in or returning to one's own home.
set up home
British start living somewhere on a permanent basis:
the couple set up home in Chelsea eight years ago
when ——'s at home
British used to add humorous emphasis to a question about someone's identity:
who's Peter when he's at home?
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